5 Useful communication tips to help you become more attractive

Just pick one of the six communication tips below and master it, and you’ll have better conversations.

1. Listen

Listening is one of the most important factors determining the quality of a conversation. However, the purpose of listening is that you must be completely focused on the information the speaker is trying to convey, not listening to give an answer. So, to become a real listener, you have to be patient and practice a lot.

2. Ask questions

When we are uncertain about something, we tend to make somewhat negative assumptions . So don’t be afraid to ask the speaker if you don’t understand what he or she is trying to convey. No one will notice that you ask questions you think are silly, because clarity is better than a false assumption, right?

3. Look for commonalities instead of differences

In most relationships, a common interest is usually what holds us together. Even the sages have repeatedly said that there are more things that bind people than what separates us. Find that connection point, your interactions will gradually become clearer and more real.

4. Limit wandering thoughts

Reflecting on things seems to be one of the human instincts. However, when communicating, thinking about every detail in the story will only make you more lost in your own world and forget the speaker. You don’t have to complicate things, because life is inherently imperfect, sometimes a very simple thing becomes a complex product of the imagination. So, if thoughts come to your mind during a conversation, let them out of your mind.

5. Be more open to how other people talk

Each person’s communication style is formed based on a number of cases that they have successfully applied (also known as patterns of behavior). If a person has a way of speaking that upsets you, understand that they don’t mean it. It’s just that the way they talk has helped them feel comfortable in previous conversations. Knowing this will help you stay calm and open up the conversation.